Ty Baby, This One's For You

Look at my big boy! Just a week from turning 18 months, Tyler is a bundle of fun and joy. He loves going down slides...Eating noodles (here he's even on a booster seat!)...Walking through bushes...Riding on swings of all kinds...And, pretending to drive.

And, a week ago, today, I made the decision that it was time to stop nursing (breastfeeding) him. It was just a sudden decision, but it kind of wasn't, at the same time. More than a week prior, I was on an antibiotic for an insect bite that grew larger than any I have seen on my body before. While on the meds, I thought it would be better if I didn't nurse Tyler. We were down to just once a day anyway. So, for 4 days, he seemed okay, though a little sad, and did ask for it several times in the mornings. After I finished my pills, I went back to nursing him. I started back on a Monday, and by Friday, I was feeling like maybe he was done, though not sure if I was.

Saturday morning, when he woke us up, I just knew that it was time.

David went to get him, and instead of bringing him into our room, he just changed his diaper and tried to play with him. Tyler was pretty upset about it, but then the next day, David brought him into our room, and I snuggled with him for a while. That seemed to comfort him enough. He did ask a few times to nurse, but by Monday or Tuesday, he stopped asking. Now, he joins us in bed after he wakes up, and we snuggle until he's ready to get up and start his day.

Our last nursing was very sweet and loving, and I'm so happy it has worked out so well for us. As with Vincent, it was a struggle...even more so, actually. I think I posted about it last year, but to recap, I had an over-active letdown (I think that's what it's called). Milk was coming down faster than he could suck. Poor little guy. On top of that, he wouldn't take a bottle. Not even from our doula, who was confident that she could get him to take one. Granted, we didnt' try that hard with the bottle. And, then there was those few days when he decided that he only wanted to nurse while I was lying down. Yeah right, kiddo! This whole mess lasted for almost the first 6 months of his life.

Thankfully, Mr. Precocious wanted to eat table foods earlier than we expected, which helped give me some relief. And, soon, things just worked itself out somehow. I don't know how. And, we went on to have a beautiful mommy-baby nursing relationship for so much longer than I expected. I'm so content with how it has all turned out, and I love being able to cuddle with my baby each morning. I keep thinking that I will feel sad, but I don't. And, I think that there's something wrong because I am not sad, but truthfully, it's not wrong. It is all right. It happened just as it should have.

Thank you, thank you, sweet, sweet Tyler Baby. I love you so.

Performance Art

This week, Vincent was invited to see a mini production of "Green Eggs and Ham" put on by his friend's preschool. It was at 3:30 in the afternoon, which is typically when the kids are still napping, or just waking up. So, I did my best and got them napping early, but still had to wake them up at about 10 til 3pm. I actually fell asleep, too, and just happened to wake up in time. I have no pictures of the play, but afterwards, the school had popsicles and, of course, green eggs and ham. Funny, I had promised Vincent an ice cream bar afterwards, and what do you know, I saved myself a couple of bucks! And, Tyler had to have one, too. The most impressive part of all this was that they both sat down and calmly ate their treats, while watching all the other children run around, and barely got any mess on themselves. I guess the Playground Gods were on my side that day. Oh yeah, and Vincent decided he wanted to wear this outfit; even asked if he could nap and sleep in it. I let him nap in the hat. But, soon after the calm, came the storm. No, not really, but Vincent did get really excited to play with his "favorite girl" as he calls her. We took the kids to the farmers' market afterwards, and they chased each other around pretending to be airplanes. So cute.

Today, our family outing was to see Sounds of Vietnam, a musical performance, at the Rainier Beach Library. That library is not close to our house, but the kids and I got to see this performance last year & I really wanted David to see it this year. Tyler was a little scared of the instruments, so he and I explored the library. Vincent and David both go up on stage and helped perform a little dance. Halfway through, Vincent walked off, and no longer wanted to participate. But, when they asked for volunteers a second time, he happily joined in and even gave a proud bow afterwards.

Speaking of perfomance art, after the preschool play, we were telling David about it during dinner, and Vincent said, "Next time I want to get on the stage." So, I asked if he would like to go to drama camp next summer so that he can learn to get up on stage. He said, "yes." Watch out World! You may be seeing lil' V on "Inside the Actors Guild" oneday.

After the library music show, Vincent said, "I'm getting hungry. I want to go to Old McDonald's for lunch." We tried to convince him to go to the taco bus, but he was set on his suggestion. We saw one on our drive towards home, and he recognized it, and wondered why we weren't going there. We needed to make u-turn, and as we came back around and were approaching it, he said, "Here we go, we're turning, we're turning...We're here! We're at Old McDonald's!!" I swear, we don't go there that often, but apparently, enough. AND, he said, "I'm going to have milk and apples, and get a toy." Sheesh!

But, wait, there's more to our morning outing! Another thing Vincent wanted to do today was go to a playground. He kept asking about it before the library, then before lunch, and then after lunch. So, we obliged and took them to the "fire truck playground," as he calls it. Many of you know it as the Starbucks playground.

Here's the part where I talk about Tyler...you know, our other child. Tyler's just shy of turning 18 months old. I get a lot of people asking me if he's 2 years old. Or, shall I say, if "she's" 2 years old. But, he sure is good lookin'. Look at him here, definitely a boy, even in a red shirt. Yeah, yeah, he has long hair, but totally a boy.

The boys had a really fun time playing here. They both got on this tall, windy, fast slide on the "big kids" side of the playground. The first time Ty went down, he flipped from belly to bottom and was a little in shock, but loved it.

My boys amaze me. I can't believe how big they're getting. I want to say more about little Ty Ty, but I'm going to dedicate a separate post to him for that...

Flyin' By

A couple of weeks ago, I tried to post some pictures of our July, but had some trouble with Blogger. Then weeks went by, and now here we are, the middle of August. So, let me catch you up on the past month, since my last post...there are many photos.

My mom came to visit for a week. It was great. During her visit, we took the boys the wading pool, as well as various other outings, including farmers' markets, and playdates with other Mandarin speaking friends. While A-ma was here, David and I took Vincent to a Mariner's game. My first one since having children, and Vincent's first taste of cotton candy.

I also celebrated another birthday.

Then, A-ma and I flew the kids down to L.A. for a week. Here are the highlights:

A train ride in Griffith Park.

First pony ride for both boys! I took the boys to the beach, and found this great spot for wading. Vincent got in so far!

After the beach, Tyler enjoyed his first In N Out milkshake. Both boys LOVED it...the food, too! In fact, the second time Vincent went a few days later, he was happy to eat a second dinner, and he said, "These are my favorite fries!"

We went to the nearby mall a couple of times to ride the coin operated rides. Vincent remembered them from our last trip to L.A. and kept asking to go.
This is an important picture...What do you see? Two major developments in the Hunt family: 1)Tyler finally let David carry him on his shoulders, and 2) Vincent upgraded to a Razor scooter.

We had a family pool party at my cousin's house to celebrate both his and my birthdays in July.

Vincent let us put a beetle in his hand. He gave it back, then decided he wanted it again, but then it flew away. It was a fun surprise.

And, back in Seattle...The boys are growing so fast. We're spending lots of time a playgrounds. Tyler is learning to climb a chain ladder
Vincent can do the zip-line by himself.
And, he spent two weeks at summer camp, which seems to have built his overall playground confidence, like going down this twirly thing.
We got to see our friends' amazing backyard garden with beautiful sunflowers.

There have been many more fun summer memories, and I'm sure there will be more before Labor Day. We'll keep you posted!